Don’t Force A Girl To Love You, Do These 6 Things If She Turns You Down (Opinion) |
On several occasions, I’ve heard some people express how they have been turned down by someone whom they truly love. It is not a rare case that most times someone you love may not love you too, or someone you have feelings for may not feel the same way for you too. It is obviously exasperating.
It’s so frustrating to watch some else to have the person you love and you cannot do anything about it. But the worst thing you can do to yourself is to force someone to love you; that will frustrate your relationship in the future.
However strong a lady may tend to be, you can still make her fall for you, what matters is how good you play your part in order to make it work.
1.Find out what interests her so much in a man. When you discover this, it is just like finding out the kind of man she desires, then try to make yourself conform to her interest in that aspect. In such a manner, the journey is becoming successful. But if she is that kind of “money lady”, my brother run for your dear life if you are seeking love because you cannot get it at all.
2. Improve your dressing. No woman would want to mingle with a guy who dresses indecently no matter what kind of lady she is. Every woman wants her man to have a good fashion sense. So try to know the kind of dressing pattern which intrigues her or captivates her interest and always go in it.
3. Have a job. Remember here that the love is not yet established, you are trying to make it work by making her reciprocate your love. Have a job because she would always turn you down if you do not have a reasonable job which you do. And try to package up yourself in your job no matter what kind of job it is.
4. Have a good sense of reasoning and sense of humor. Do not be the kind that is so talkative. Always know what to say and say the right words at the right time. Do not be a noisemaker. Always have a good sense of reasoning and try to depict it while talking.
5. Be calm and nice-looking. Just like I said do not be a noisemaker or tend to be so talkative. Make her see you as a calm and nice-looking guy, and not as a rascal.
6. Do not tend to be lascivious. Even though something might be burgeoning inside you, do not let it burst, do not let her notice any form of lascivious attitude in you.
I believe this will help you to win her.